Hi there! Thanks for stopping by. I created this blog to give people like me a safe space to go to find gender affirming items and give them tools to help with dysphoria. Being gender non-conforming can sometimes feel overwhelming and it's always nice to have someone you can relate to, especially when you aren't having a great day. 

This place can be whatever you'd like it to be.  If you need to talk to someone, please check out the resources tab. There you'll find helplines and places you can go to find help. You can start a chat with us here on the blog and if you'd like to see more follow us on Facebook and Instagram. 

No matter how you identify, this space is for you. Hang out and learn something you might not know or learn a bit about me. I try to post as often as I can but I usually try to post once a month or every other. The recipe page is new and will take some time to build so be patient. 

Be kind to one another and keep on trying your best!

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Hi, I’m Ash

A lot has happened in the past two years and I think my journal needs an update.

Hi my name is Ash. My pronouns are they/them. I am 21 years old and I identify as non-binary (nb) transmasculine (transmasc). You might be asking yourself what all these terms mean. If you aren’t, congrats you already know a little bit more than some readers might. If you don’t and are a little confused, let me help you. Non-binary refers to any person that identifies their gender outside of the gender binary (female and male). This can mean they don’t identify with any gender, they identify with more than just those two genders, or a mix, meaning their gender fluctuates. I fall somewhere between fluctuating gender and a gender beyond the binary. 

Fundraiser Spotlight

I'm starting this fundraiser spotlight off with my very own GoFundMe for top surgery! If you'd like to submit your own, fill out the contact form below.